In an episode of the TV series, Nip/Tuck, a young woman begins to learn about her body, after recovering from surgery. The amazingly understanding nurse dimmed the lights in her hospital room, and gently and patiently encouraged the young woman to “rub the magic genie.” The orgasm that came was described by the nurse to the doctors as “Houston, we have lift off.” The young woman was in joyful tears as she said “it was like God waking up inside of me.” Such an uplifting and sacred experience.
Posts Tagged ‘sexual’
Nip/Tuck: Rubbing The Magic Genie
March 3rd, 2010Patience! Let’s Dialogue
March 1st, 2010
OK, I am waiting for my body and me to join together in a new phase of life. I am aging gracefully, I thought. Then, my secret….vaginal dryness and resulting low libido. I finding out all kinds of information especially how common this issue is. My body and me begin to dialogue. “Body tell me what is happening…down there.”
The body responds….”I do not feel safe. You have been pushing me to have sex when I do not want to. Sometimes I do not even feel acknowledged that I am there. You demand a lot of me…you keep asking me to hurry. Don’t you know that I have had natural changes in hormone levels that means that I am producing less lubrication? When I feel pressure from you, I shut down the systems. Yes, I become dry. I hope you will begin listening to me. Help me out here.
“Body, what do you want me to hear?”
The body responds…”I need you to learn more about me, so gather information about hormone replacement therapy OR NOT. When you exercise, how about exercising me, the vagina, the clitoris? Stock up on the magical and all natural personal lubricant, Aloe Cadabra, in all three scents: Natural Aloe, Tahitian Vanilla, and French Lavender. Let’s have some magic getting to know each other gently and playfully. BE PATIENT.” Let’s keep talking…..coffee or tea…some fine wine?
Self Pleasuring After Work
February 2nd, 2010
Candles are lit. I am home from work. This is a before dinner “quickie.” Smooth some lube on, so that I can “skate” into the lovely lips of my vagina. My fingers move in a circle as I breathe and feel the feelings building, massaging those magical pink folds of my clitoris. The feelings are building. Nothing else matters. Breathing, my sexual juices are exploding into pleasure. My heart is beating. I smiled. Maybe one more before dinner! What a way to come home to me.
The Excitement of the Valentine Moment
January 29th, 2010
Valentine’s Day, a time of love, remembering love, and taking the time to hold hands, and gently gaze into each others’ eyes, breathing deeply as you say “I love YOU.” Words may not totally express the love, but the physical connection and eye contact surely will.
Listen as Roberta Flack and Peabo Bryson sing: “Tonight I celebrate my love for you… our spirits will be blinded by a sky lit up with diamonds.” My heart and soul are so glad to be welcomed by the one I adore. I delight in the touch, ever so gentle, the long slow strokes, as my body awakens and dances in the joy of the moment. As we caress, our breath becomes soft, joining together in ecstasy.
And…what better way to enhance the Valentine Moment than with Aloe Cadabra, and for this moment we choose French Lavender. Ahhhhh…the smell of excitement is there as we fall in love again, and again. The feel of the silky, smooth aloe becomes a part of us together in love. Happy Valentine’s Day!
An Erotic Trip to the Grocery Store
January 27th, 2010
In the grocery store there were three women sorting through the cucumbers that were on special. They were laughing as they each sorted through the bin of large ones, middle sized ones, long ones and “just perfect ones.” Ah, yes, the wonderful self pleasuring toy. (Make sure it is washed first!) Which one feels good? It would feel great with some Aloe Cadabra smoothed onto that amazing cucumber toy! What is next in the produce department?
Exercise Your Sexual Body: Taking a Ride
January 9th, 2010
Exercise your body and also your sexual body. Feel the release and you simply take some time to be with you. Fast or slow, you decide. Take some Aloe Cadabra along for the ride. Use your voice, squeal with glee. Have fun. Ride on!
Natural Aloe Lubrication
December 31st, 2009
“This lubrication rocks! It only enhances the feeling of my dance of life. And what an incredible satisfying dance it is. I love the different scents which I call flavors…..ahhhhhh…. French Lavender, Tahitian Vanilla, and of course for those natural times in the deep woods of life…..Natural Aloe.”
Recovery from Sexual and Emotional Trauma: I Love Virgina
December 1st, 2009
Many slang words do not reflect the positive affirmation of the body. It is difficult for many to even say the word “vagina.” In seminars for trauma survivors, women have named their vagina’s Virginia or Flower, whatever comes lovingly to mind. Later someone sent me a T-Shirt with the printing “I Love Virgina” (naming the state of Virginia)…which was then was changed by several women to “I Love My Virginia.” Later on, it became easier to say “vagina.”
