OK, I am waiting for my body and me to join together in a new phase of life. I am aging gracefully, I thought. Then, my secret….vaginal dryness and resulting low libido. I finding out all kinds of information especially how common this issue is. My body and me begin to dialogue. “Body tell me what is happening…down there.”
The body responds….”I do not feel safe. You have been pushing me to have sex when I do not want to. Sometimes I do not even feel acknowledged that I am there. You demand a lot of me…you keep asking me to hurry. Don’t you know that I have had natural changes in hormone levels that means that I am producing less lubrication? When I feel pressure from you, I shut down the systems. Yes, I become dry. I hope you will begin listening to me. Help me out here.
“Body, what do you want me to hear?”
The body responds…”I need you to learn more about me, so gather information about hormone replacement therapy OR NOT. When you exercise, how about exercising me, the vagina, the clitoris? Stock up on the magical and all natural personal lubricant, Aloe Cadabra, in all three scents: Natural Aloe, Tahitian Vanilla, and French Lavender. Let’s have some magic getting to know each other gently and playfully. BE PATIENT.” Let’s keep talking…..coffee or tea…some fine wine?
How ’bout a chance to win an entire GIFT BASKET of Aloe Cadabra!? Radical Vixen is giving one away to celebrate her five year blog anniversary…keep an eye on 
No, we’re not talking about getting involved more deeply with the produce section at your local market (that’s what 
Valentine’s Day, a time of love, remembering love, and taking the time to hold hands, and gently gaze into each others’ eyes, breathing deeply as you say “I love YOU.” Words may not totally express the love, but the physical connection and eye contact surely will.
Sue the “Stay At Home Mom” blogs about her (and hubby’s!) experience with organic, plant-based Aloe Cadabra personal lubricant:
