At dinner, I felt so much love… being IN love… as I put the ring on her finger, and looked forward to the time when the two of us become one in marriage. This was a slow down and relaxing weekend just the two of us. In my other pocket, I reached in for the colorful purple bag of Aloe Cadabra to enhance this very special weekend. Our bodies awakened to the scent of Lavender, as we celebrated the joy of this moment that we will remember always. We returned to our room with a view of the night skies with bright stars. Together we go to a place of ecstasy again and again. Yes, there is MUCH life in Death Valley.

But… what about our “emotional body?” We need that emotional connection, that exhilarating feeling of looking and really SEEING into our partner’s eyes, embracing the mind, body, spirit. We need to feel loved, wanted, and language that matches the loving heartfelt spirit. We need to have patience with allowing the natural lubrication to flow like a river of ecstasy. We need to create time, have space, and have an emotionally healthy connection….and then the magic happens. To have this connection means that we may also invite our natural juices to flow on their own. Often, we may add the gift of an all natural personal lubricant to join in this ecstatic journey. Aloe Cadabra with three scents of Natural Aloe, French Lavender, and Tahitian Vanilla, enhances the moment and deepens communication about what we like.

Stress in life…..do we need to name the main stressors we face daily? We suggest a few: financial strain, job stress, health concerns, relationship difficulties, and of course the kids. These stressors stop our bodies from feeling fluid (and fluidity in the mind, body, and spirit creates fluidity in natural lubrication of the physical and sexual body). We may not realize how much these stressors affect us until we try to do too much, and adding the pressure of sexual expression to the list of “I must and I should and I have to.” STOP, in the Name of Love,(as sung by the Supremes.)  Our Super woman or Superman uniform becomes our life as we run to try to catch up (and we never do).  Vaginal dryness is a HUGE factor in how we respond to stress. Choose to change this pattern NOW.

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CLICK HERE to read more from our multi-part exploration of vaginal dryness that discusses the causes, opportunities for enhancement and ways to get your juices flowing led by Carolyn Braddock, a renowned educator, coach and wellness Professional.

Try adding a little “green” to your romantic rendezvous by incorporating an all-natural & eco friendly alternative “lotion” with Aloe Cadabra, a 95% aloe based personal “love lotion”. Instead of using harsh chemicals to ignite the fires, aloe cadabra offers a smooth, gentle yet non greasy personal product that will leave you breathless (rather literally,lol!).

Read her full review HERE!

….Give the gift that continues to dance with the love between you!

The purple bag holds the excitement, the mystery,

the natural addition to our celebration.

- Carolyn

Aloe Cadabra®, due to its recipe of 97% organic aloe vera, has all the anti-bacterial, anti-microbial and anti-fungal properties of Aloe and has a healing effect on the vaginal tissue. During sexual intercourse, delicate vaginal skin is exposed, and because it is typically not maintained at a healthy pH level, is especially subject to infection. The organic Aloe in Aloe Cadabra® personal lubricant lowers the pH on the surface of the skin and helps to heal the tissue while creating a barrier to opportunistic infections. Aloe Cadabra® is the sweetest, cleanest, safest, personal lubricant available, made with only pure, organic Aloe vera, and a small amount of food grade preservative.

I recall attending a conference where a research study demonstrated when more elders self pleasured and/or engaged in sexual activity they were healthier and more active in many aspects of their lives. Numerous slides were shown to support the very positive effects of continued activity on the organs of the body. In fact, it was suggested that the encouragement of elder sexual expression can be a good way to increase longevity. Other studies show that for many elders, sexual activity does not decline much at all.

Perhaps there is a deepening of love as we age. Perhaps we might encourage a bit of assistance (and fun) from sexual toys, and lubrications…even with attractive scents. Aloe Cadabra has scents such as Natural Aloe, French Lavender, and Tahitian Vanilla. We are still dancing, and moving and feeling those “juices flowing.” The songs may be a bit different, yet each dance IS the dance of life’s energy.