In the grocery store there were three women sorting through the cucumbers that were on special. They were laughing as they each sorted through the bin of large ones, middle sized ones, long ones and “just perfect ones.” Ah, yes, the wonderful self pleasuring toy. (Make sure it is washed first!) Which one feels good? It would feel great with some Aloe Cadabra smoothed onto that amazing cucumber toy! What is next in the produce department?
Author Archive
An Erotic Trip to the Grocery Store
January 27th, 2010Reducing Dryness During Menopause: Visualization
January 11th, 2010
The power of the mind/body/spirit connection in reducing dryness during menopause:
Did you know that visualizing and exploring the images that appear, can actually help in reducing dryness? A group of women were comparing notes….several women were sharing about how they felt great about this time of life. They said, this time is richer, more meaningful. They visualized their vaginas as pink, moist, ready to receive the good in this time of life. They were full of excitement taking more time for themselves. They felt and were healthy, and so were their images, and their sex lives. They desired the connection to their bodies. The others listened, asked questions, and as they practiced visualizing, became good at exploring the images. Suddenly their sex lives improved. They danced with ideas and fantasies. They played with Aloe Cadabra as they realized the incredible scents available to their fantasies…which one today?
Exercise Your Sexual Body: Taking a Ride
January 9th, 2010
Exercise your body and also your sexual body. Feel the release and you simply take some time to be with you. Fast or slow, you decide. Take some Aloe Cadabra along for the ride. Use your voice, squeal with glee. Have fun. Ride on!
Chi, Libido and Juices
January 6th, 2010
For some women the lack of libido is in decline. So why not practice some Tai Ji, and Qi Gong which is focused on bringing the life force energy and “chi” into the body/mind/and spirit. Move the body. Put on some favorite music. The body knows what to do. Imagine the chi, life energy awakening inside your body. Each cell, each joint, each muscle, awakens to new life. Don’t worry about the form. Just move and enjoy, and PLAY. Then notice inside your body. What do you experience? Do you feel the “juices” of the life energy flowing? Do you feel fluid? Enjoy your body.
Trying to Conceive
January 2nd, 2010
We are and have been under extreme pressure to conceive. After all, we are getting to that deadline in age. Each time we try to conceive, we both get nervous, and it just becomes an exercise in pushing the limit. Let’s try something else. Imagine all the cells in the body ready to receive. Scan your body. If there are some cells that are not ready to receive, simply ask them what they might need in order to receive. This may sound a bit crazy, but it does help to explore what the blocks are to conceiving. Listen carefully to the wonderful wisdom of the body. This is what is called a “full body response.” Then check out the images that may be coming up. Observe, notice, and gather information about those images. Do not try to fix or change them. Those images might just guide you into another image. Use some lubricant so you can take the time to explore those images….SLOWLY. Relax into the feeling of connection to your body, and to your partner’s body, and/or to the receiving of sperm to join with the egg in creation.
Natural Aloe Lubrication
December 31st, 2009
“This lubrication rocks! It only enhances the feeling of my dance of life. And what an incredible satisfying dance it is. I love the different scents which I call flavors…..ahhhhhh…. French Lavender, Tahitian Vanilla, and of course for those natural times in the deep woods of life…..Natural Aloe.”
Elder Love: Keeping the Juices Flowing
December 30th, 2009
In the media we are constantly faced with ads that say “take this or take that pill” to help with bone health as we age. Do we hear about exercising, diet, or ways to “keep the juices flowing” to help the body remain fluid and in good working order? Do we celebrate the deepening of love and sexual expression in the elder years? After all, many of us have had wonderful years of good sexual experience, and we continue to do so. We are human beings who need tender touch. We have needs, are sensual, and yes, sexual. This is in fact a normal, and can be delightful part of lives in the elder years. In travels to Eastern cultures, we witness a celebration and an honoring of elder love with natural sexual expression. In the literature, it is suggested that in order to keep the organs in our body functioning in a healthy way, the juices must keep flowing….as in exercising the sexual organs to stay lubricated, and healthy.
Christmas Under The Tree
December 25th, 2009
The children are asleep waiting for Christmas morning hoping that Santa will arrive with many wonderful gifts…AND not a creature was stirring….EXCEPT for Mom and Dad, preparing the way under the decorated tree with multicolored lights flashing brilliantly. They nestled down onto a soft blanket under the tree gazing at the lights, smelling the pine needles. Smiles were on their faces, the lubricant for a smooth journey was in their hands, and the excitement increased as they touched, massaged with long, slow strokes and loving and kind words….and then….”Is there really a Santa Claus? Will Santa see us and the reindeer see us? Will we get caught?….ah…the thrill of getting caught. Christmas music is in the background…..the joy of Christmas is here fully, with laughter, and a visions of sugar plums dancing around them.Perhaps a lubricant with the smell of Christmas?
On Rev. Paul Murphy: Cherishing Life and Love
December 2nd, 2009
The late Rev. Paul Murphy, a United Methodist Minister called sex “God’s Great Gift.” His new book Cherishing Life and Love, a collection of his writings certainly expresses the message of sex and sexual expression in loving ways being truly a gift.
Recovery from Sexual and Emotional Trauma: I Love Virgina
December 1st, 2009
Many slang words do not reflect the positive affirmation of the body. It is difficult for many to even say the word “vagina.” In seminars for trauma survivors, women have named their vagina’s Virginia or Flower, whatever comes lovingly to mind. Later someone sent me a T-Shirt with the printing “I Love Virgina” (naming the state of Virginia)…which was then was changed by several women to “I Love My Virginia.” Later on, it became easier to say “vagina.”
